You Don’t Know Until You’re In It

May 8, 2025

People love to say, “You’re so strong,” or “I could never survive that.” But truth is, you don’t know your strength until life forces it out of you. I used to think I wasn’t strong either. And then everything crumbled.

What came next was pain I wouldn’t wish on anyone. But here’s what no one tells you: your body, your mind—they carry not just trauma, but the medicine too. When there was no one left to run to, no one to fix it, I found something in me that I didn’t know existed. Not overnight. Not easily. But it was there.

Narratives saved me. Rewriting them. Challenging them. Owning them. And that’s when I finally understood all those quotes—the ones from Rumi, Gibran, all the great mystics who kept whispering that what we seek is already within us.

Now I believe them.

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