Do You Truly See Your Child?

February 16, 2025

Parents, pause and reflect. Ask yourself:

• Do you know your child when they’re telling the truth? Not because you love them no matter what they do, but because you choose to see them clearly—beyond your hopes, beyond your fears.

• Are you listening with fairness, or are you blinded by what you wish to see instead of what is truly there?

• When you look at them, are you seeing their reality or your version of it?

• Can you hold space for their truth, even if it’s uncomfortable?

The greatest gift you can give your child is to truly see them—fully, honestly, and without illusion.

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