Love Is the Real Inheritance

May 7, 2025

I often notice when parents express giving their children the best means filling their world with toys, gadgets, clothes, or comfort. Especially in many Asian households, love is sometimes mistaken for sacrifice that shows up as provision — school fees, new shoes, their favorite snacks. But love isn’t what you buy. It’s what you build.

The image says it all: a peaceful home, not a perfect one, is the greatest gift. One where a child doesn’t witness yelling, disrespect, or emotional neglect. Where there’s warmth instead of cold silence. Hugs instead of slammed doors. Kindness instead of tension.

A child who feels safe becomes an adult who knows what safety feels and looks like — and seeks or creates it. You don’t have to be rich to give your child peace. You just have to be present. Love is free, but it changes everything.

0 Comments

The Thread

The Thread

I was watching Steven Bartlett’s podcast with Jefferson Fisher, and he dropped something that stopped me mid-scroll:“The quality of the relationship depends...

Authenticity Is Non-Negotiable

Authenticity Is Non-Negotiable

Authentic people aren’t performing for you. They’re not curating a version of themselves hoping you’ll approve. They’re simply refusing to lie to...

No More Auditions

No More Auditions

I thought if I was perfect enough, gentle enough, successful enough, love would settle in and stay this time. But the rules kept changing, and every approval...