What If We Led with Our Wounds?

May 2, 2025

Imagine a world where we don’t just react to each other—but negotiate how we interact, based on an understanding of our wounds.

What if we paused before responding, not to suppress emotion, but to respect the other’s history? What if we delivered truth gently, not to avoid discomfort, but to honor the pain we didn’t cause but could easily trigger? I know it’s an area I can always improve upon.

In this world, leadership wouldn’t be driven by ego, but by those who’ve done the internal work—and continue to. Because true leaders know: unexamined pain becomes policy, projection becomes conflict, and power without self-awareness is just damage in a suit.

This may sound idealistic—but every shift begins at the root, not the top. If we teach the next generation emotional fluency and self-awareness, we’re not just raising better individuals—we’re shaping a more peaceful world.

It starts with us. And it’s not too late.

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