SAM Frida

Unfiltered – ish

The Stories We Tell Instead of the Stories We Know

The Stories We Tell Instead of the Stories We Know

We have a habit of finishing other people’s narratives for them. A soldier dies in a conflict. We say it was for a noble cause. We say they were heroes. And maybe somewhere in that, there’s truth. But we’ve never walked in their shoes. We don’t know if they joined...

AI Literacy Isn’t Optional Anymore

AI Literacy Isn’t Optional Anymore

You’re being shaped by systems you’ll never see, built by people you’ll never meet, optimizing for outcomes you’ll never understand. And you think you’re making your own decisions. Every piece of information that reaches you has already been filtered, ranked, and...

The Identity Trap

The Identity Trap

There is something deeply reassuring about knowing who you are. A clear identity gives you a framework, a set of values, a north star when the world gets noisy. Without one, you risk standing for nothing.But here is the catch: the same identity that anchors you can...

Nobody Flirts With Intelligence Anymore

Nobody Flirts With Intelligence Anymore

We live in an age of instantaneous everything. Swipe right. Double-tap. Next. The speed at which we now decide whether someone is worth our attention has been compressed into a fraction of a second, and almost always, that decision is made before a single word has...

What Happens When You Stop Waiting for a Reaction

What Happens When You Stop Waiting for a Reaction

There’s something quietly fascinating about the moment you offer a genuine apology.Not a calculated one. Not a strategic one designed to smooth things over or get something back. Just an honest acknowledgment that you got it wrong, offered directly to the person you...

You Are Not Too Sensitive. You Are Too Awake.

You Are Not Too Sensitive. You Are Too Awake.

There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes not from doing too much, but from explaining yourself to people who have never once sat with their own darkness.You overthink, they say. You are too sensitive. And they say it with such confidence, such ease, as...

We Keep Fixing the Roof When the Foundation Is Cracking

We Keep Fixing the Roof When the Foundation Is Cracking

There’s something quietly heartbreaking about watching human beings move through the world carrying wounds they don’t know they have. We walk around with these invisible bruises, these deeply grooved responses to life that formed long before we had the language to...