SAM Frida

Unfiltered – ish

Feel Your Wounds. Don’t Give Them to Animals.

Feel Your Wounds. Don’t Give Them to Animals.

Please stop hurting animals. I’m begging people to stop. Feel your wounds. Face your pain. Work through whatever is inside you, but please don’t put it onto a living being that cannot understand why you’re hurting them. Animals don’t want to hurt you. They trust you....

To the Ones Who Can’t Unsee It

To the Ones Who Can’t Unsee It

To the Ones Who Can’t Unsee It My heart goes out to the neurodivergent people who can see the fucking pattern. You know what I mean. You look around at what is happening in this country, in the world, in our institutions, in leadership, in the way human beings are...

Don’t Tell Me Your Religion. Show Me Who You Are.

Don’t Tell Me Your Religion. Show Me Who You Are.

There’s a pattern I keep noticing. The louder some people are about how religious they are, the more I sometimes wonder what the performance is protecting. I’m not talking about everyone. I know genuinely religious people whose beliefs make them kinder, humbler, more...

Darkness Does the Sorting.

Darkness Does the Sorting.

I think I’ve given up on humanity a little. Not on people. On humanity. On all the bullshit we’ve built around being human. Because the older I get, the more I think there are really only two kinds of people: good people, and wounded people who have made peace with...

Borders

Borders

The world does not become bigger or smaller because we draw borders across it. The land remains where it has always been. The oceans do not move. The sky does not recognize passports. What borders can do is tear lives apart. They separate families. They turn lovers...

The People Who Let You Think Out Loud

The People Who Let You Think Out Loud

There is a particular kind of safety that has nothing to do with being agreed with. It is the safety of being allowed to think out loud. To say, I’m not sure yet. To question something you once believed. To follow an idea to its edge, discover that it does not hold...

The Difference Between Feeling and Carrying

The Difference Between Feeling and Carrying

I had almost no boundaries before. I could hear someone’s story, feel what they were carrying, and somehow carry it with me for the rest of the day. It would stay in my head, follow me home, become something I needed to understand or somehow make sense of. I still...

Soft Until the Truth Needs Teeth

Soft Until the Truth Needs Teeth

My favorite people are messy, and they own it. They’re self-aware, not because they want to look evolved, but because they are deeply committed to becoming better for themselves. They make mistakes. They apologize. They’re not afraid to be wrong, because being right...

Stop Chasing People to Understand You

Stop Chasing People to Understand You

There comes a point when trying to be understood becomes exhausting. You explain yourself. Then explain yourself differently. You clarify your intentions. You find better words. You send the longer message because the shorter one didn’t work. You search for the...