by samfrida | Sep 15, 2026 | Blog
I think I’ve reached a point where I no longer want other people’s behavior to decide who I am. If someone didn’t show up for me, I don’t automatically want to withhold from them. If someone wasn’t generous with me, I don’t want that to make me less generous. If...
by samfrida | Sep 9, 2026 | Blog
This subject lives somewhere quieter in me. Years ago, a young woman came into my life for a short time. I was going through one of the most painful periods of my own life, and I didn’t have much to give anyone. I couldn’t save her. She later took her life. I still...
by samfrida | Sep 4, 2026 | Blog
Please stop hurting animals. I’m begging people to stop. Feel your wounds. Face your pain. Work through whatever is inside you, but please don’t put it onto a living being that cannot understand why you’re hurting them. Animals don’t want to hurt you. They trust you....
by samfrida | Sep 3, 2026 | Blog
To the Ones Who Can’t Unsee It My heart goes out to the neurodivergent people who can see the fucking pattern. You know what I mean. You look around at what is happening in this country, in the world, in our institutions, in leadership, in the way human beings are...
by samfrida | Sep 3, 2026 | Blog
There’s a pattern I keep noticing. The louder some people are about how religious they are, the more I sometimes wonder what the performance is protecting. I’m not talking about everyone. I know genuinely religious people whose beliefs make them kinder, humbler, more...
