by samfrida | Jun 1, 2025 | Blog
I’ve been thinking about what it means to grow up loved. Not conditionally. Not “if you behave.” Not “if you meet expectations.” Just loved—for being. When a child is raised in love—whether by gay, queer, or straight parents—they’re not just being cared for, they’re...
by samfrida | Jun 1, 2025 | Blog
Some friendships and relationships aren’t built on depth. They’re wrapped in convenience—comfortable so long as you don’t disrupt the ease of someone else’s life. You’re kept around because you give something, not always because you’re seen, valued, or truly embraced....
by samfrida | May 29, 2025 | Blog
What a wild time to be alive. We’ve got AI generating poetry, fake presidents, and deepfaked puppies doing calculus—while people scroll through it all like they’re devouring a fast-food combo meal. No pause. No questions. Just… swipe, like, repost. Media is the new...
by samfrida | May 27, 2025 | Blog
We’re all performers, in some way. We know the script—sweet words, kind gestures, well-timed affection. It’s easy to mistake that performance for love. But real love? Real connection? It’s not the curated highlight reel. It’s the behind-the-scenes. The unfiltered,...
by samfrida | May 27, 2025 | Blog
There’s a difference between keeping score and seeking safety. One looks for leverage; the other looks for connection. This screenshot from Warpaint Journal hit something deep. It speaks to those of us who feel energy—who sense effort, tone, silence, and presence in...
