by samfrida | Oct 19, 2025 | Blog
Authenticity isn’t dumping your feelings. It’s standing there after you speak and not folding. It’s breath held steady while your body screams for approval. It’s the difference between truth and spill. Most of us overshare because we can’t hold the charge. We want...
by samfrida | Oct 18, 2025 | Blog
Choose the door that scares you because it’s yours; the tidy one is just applause with better lighting, and a life curated for approval is a windowless room where wonder can’t breathe. The heart isn’t asking permission, it’s issuing coordinates and judgment is only a...
by samfrida | Oct 17, 2025 | Blog
Reading “Trees” makes one truth impossible to dodge: only nature can do what nature does and it does it without asking for notice. A single tree turns light into life, slows rain, steadies soil, offers shelter, and somehow becomes a place to pray. The ocean works on...
by samfrida | Oct 16, 2025 | Blog
Love is an exquisite contradiction: two selves guarding their edges while daring to dissolve, a dance that forbids ownership yet invites surrender. It grows by giving away what it cannot keep, attention, freedom, responsibility, until intimacy becomes the art of...
by samfrida | Oct 16, 2025 | Blog
“Woke” and “un‑woke” are just brand labels for a shelf I used to shop from when I outsourced my reflection to other people’s eyes. For years, I lived inside a high‑budget movie about me, well lit, well scored, and not real until presence walked onto the set and asked...