If I Have to Ask, I Don’t Want It

If I Have to Ask, I Don’t Want It

This quote attributed to Frida Kahlo is more than just a letter to a partner—it’s a raw declaration of the need for authenticity in love, in connection, in life. It struck me the moment I saw it, because it encapsulates something I deeply believe: the best things in...
The Liberation of “Not My Circus”

The Liberation of “Not My Circus”

Sometimes the deepest peace comes not from fixing the chaos—but from stepping around it. This screenshot says it all: detachment isn’t indifference. It’s wisdom. You reach a point where you stop explaining, stop justifying, stop rescuing. Not because you don’t...
We’re Still Human, Even After Awakening

We’re Still Human, Even After Awakening

I came across this quote (screenshot below) and it really hit home. There’s this subtle pressure that once we’ve had a spiritual awakening, we need to act like we’ve transcended all human emotion—like we’ve become this perfectly calm, always-kind, never-reactive...
Finding Home

Finding Home

We often search for “home” in people, places, and milestones — believing that once we arrive at a certain point, we’ll finally feel grounded. But the truth is, home isn’t a destination out there. It’s a blueprint etched within us from the very beginning. Home is the...
Love Doesn’t Discriminate — So Why Do We?

Love Doesn’t Discriminate — So Why Do We?

I’ve been thinking about what it means to grow up loved. Not conditionally. Not “if you behave.” Not “if you meet expectations.” Just loved—for being. When a child is raised in love—whether by gay, queer, or straight parents—they’re not just being cared for, they’re...