by samfrida | Mar 15, 2025 | Blog
Numbness isn’t protection—it’s postponement. What you refuse to feel doesn’t disappear; it waits. Face it now, or it finds you later.
by samfrida | Mar 15, 2025 | Blog
In many Asian cultures, love is often conditional—tied to achievement, obedience, and maintaining a polished image of family success. From a young age, children learn that love must be earned. Be the top student, be the dutiful child, be the perfect sibling, and in...
by samfrida | Mar 13, 2025 | Blog
Chaos isn’t random—it exposes our flaws. Maybe Trump is just a symptom, not the cause. Maybe the problem is deeper, rooted in a culture that thrives on instantaneous gratification, always chasing the next “biggest,” “best,” or “number one.” Traveling beyond packaged...
by samfrida | Mar 13, 2025 | Blog
We chase love like it’s a prize, a destination, a missing piece that someone else holds. We romanticize the hunt, believing that love exists outside of us—if only we could find the right person to give it to us. But what if the love we’re searching for isn’t something...
by samfrida | Mar 13, 2025 | Blog
I’ve been reading The Origins of You, and something struck me—how easy it is to intellectualize trauma. I’ve done it. Maybe you have too. We can understand someone’s pain logically, analyze it, even explain it. But when that pain touches us directly, it’s a different...
