by samfrida | Mar 26, 2026 | Blog
Some of us had no choice but to become who we are.That’s not a complaint. It’s a reckoning. There comes a crossroad in life where the path splits, and neither direction is painless. One way keeps you in the familiar circle, surrounded by the people you’ve always...
by samfrida | Mar 21, 2026 | Blog
We are taught, early and often, to name what we are. Gay. Straight. Bisexual. Lesbian. The naming feels like arrival. Like finally having a word for a feeling that lived wordless inside you for years. And for many people, that word is a lifeboat. I don’t want to take...
by samfrida | Mar 20, 2026 | Blog
There’s a place I’ve arrived at that I can’t fully explain, and honestly, I’m not going to try. It’s not a destination I planned for. It’s more like a recognition. A quiet understanding that the bandwidth I have is finite, that my energy is currency, and I get to...
by samfrida | Mar 18, 2026 | Blog
I want to tell you something that might sound strange at first. Stay with it, because I think it might change how you think about a tool you probably already have access to. I have been using Claude. Not to write my emails. Not to summarize reports. Not to generate...
by samfrida | Mar 18, 2026 | Blog
There is a particular kind of loneliness that nobody warns you about. It is not the loneliness of being alone. It is the loneliness of seeing clearly in a world that has agreed, collectively and without much debate, to look away. You do the work. You bleed through the...
