Misunderstood, Yet Becoming

Misunderstood, Yet Becoming

We live in a world that craves neat definitions — empath, intellect, giver, taker, strong, fragile. But what if you are all of them at once? What if your contradictions are not flaws to fix but truths to hold? Being human often means living in paradox. You can be...
The Weight of Intellectual Loneliness

The Weight of Intellectual Loneliness

Most of life feels like a performance. Smiles, scripts, small talk. Safe answers. But once your mind stretches past the surface, you can’t go back — shallow waters feel suffocating. I keep my circle small now. Only people who think. Who don’t answer from fear. Who...
Protect Your Peace, Not Their Perception

Protect Your Peace, Not Their Perception

That screenshot stopped me in my tracks. “If they never heard your side of the story, then the side they did hear is just a reflection of how they already felt about you.” That hit me. Because for so long, I chased after people to understand me. I thought if I...
The Quiet Power of Enablers

The Quiet Power of Enablers

Narcissists rarely operate in isolation. Their entitlement and abuse often thrive in the fertile ground provided by enablers — those who look the other way, excuse the behavior, or advise others to “just let it go in one ear and out the other.” Some call this a skill...
Find Your People…

Find Your People…

You gotta find your peopleThe ones that make you feel alrightThe kind you want to stay up with all nightYou got to find your peopleThe ones that make you feel wholeThat won’t leave your side when you lose controlThe ones that don’t let you lose your soul...
Some Things Should Never Be Political

Some Things Should Never Be Political

Some Things Should Never Be Political I can’t make sense of it. Babies in Gaza have died. How do we look at that and somehow decide our lives matter more than theirs? How do we justify it, even to ourselves? If caring about those babies means someone thinks I support...