by samfrida | Apr 10, 2025 | Blog
We’re told that forgiveness is the higher road. It’s in the cards, the quotes, the spiritual texts, and the endless social media reminders. And for a long time, I tried to get there. I tried to let go, move on, be the “better person.” But the harder I tried, the more...
by samfrida | Apr 9, 2025 | Blog
For the longest time, I chose understanding over anger—not because I was enlightened, but because I didn’t know how to hold anger because I was afraid of being abandoned. It scared me. It felt endless, uncontainable. So, I swapped it out for logic, for psychology, for...
by samfrida | Apr 9, 2025 | Blog
For a long time, I adapted. Sometimes I didn’t even know I was doing it. Other times, I knew—but I still questioned my truth. I doubted myself. I stayed quiet. I softened the edges. I tried not to upset anyone. I didn’t want to be misunderstood. But that’s changed....
by samfrida | Apr 9, 2025 | Blog
You can’t awaken someone who isn’t ready to receive. That’s the part no one tells you. You can’t fast-forward their journey. You can’t shake them awake. And when their unconsciousness starts to pull you down, sometimes the most respectful thing to do—for both of...
by samfrida | Apr 8, 2025 | Blog
Sometimes I think out loud, and something unexpected rises to the surface. Today, it’s this: the best of me only comes alive where I feel safe enough to be fully myself. And when I say the best of me, I mean the version that isn’t performing, editing, or dimming. The...
by samfrida | Apr 8, 2025 | Blog
This image sums up the state of the world with unsettling clarity: 1% control. 4% are puppets. 90% are asleep. 5% are awake and trying to wake the rest. The real battle? It’s not physical. It’s awareness. The 1% don’t want the 5% waking up the 90%. Here’s the crux:...
