Protect Your Peace, Not Their Perception

Protect Your Peace, Not Their Perception

That screenshot stopped me in my tracks. “If they never heard your side of the story, then the side they did hear is just a reflection of how they already felt about you.” That hit me. Because for so long, I chased after people to understand me. I thought if I...
The Quiet Power of Enablers

The Quiet Power of Enablers

Narcissists rarely operate in isolation. Their entitlement and abuse often thrive in the fertile ground provided by enablers — those who look the other way, excuse the behavior, or advise others to “just let it go in one ear and out the other.” Some call this a skill...
Find Your People…

Find Your People…

You gotta find your peopleThe ones that make you feel alrightThe kind you want to stay up with all nightYou got to find your peopleThe ones that make you feel wholeThat won’t leave your side when you lose controlThe ones that don’t let you lose your soul...
Some Things Should Never Be Political

Some Things Should Never Be Political

Some Things Should Never Be Political I can’t make sense of it. Babies in Gaza have died. How do we look at that and somehow decide our lives matter more than theirs? How do we justify it, even to ourselves? If caring about those babies means someone thinks I support...
When the Voice of Truth Speaks Louder Than the Lies

When the Voice of Truth Speaks Louder Than the Lies

It’s incredible how loud the inner critic can be. It whispers lies in our quiet moments and shouts them in our weakest ones—convincing us we’re not enough, that we’ll never measure up, that our worth depends on the sum of our highs and lows. But what if the truth...