The Performance Trap: When Love Becomes a Transaction

The Performance Trap: When Love Becomes a Transaction

In many Asian cultures, love is often conditional—tied to achievement, obedience, and maintaining a polished image of family success. From a young age, children learn that love must be earned. Be the top student, be the dutiful child, be the perfect sibling, and in...
Through the Fire

Through the Fire

Chaos isn’t random—it exposes our flaws. Maybe Trump is just a symptom, not the cause. Maybe the problem is deeper, rooted in a culture that thrives on instantaneous gratification, always chasing the next “biggest,” “best,” or “number one.” Traveling beyond packaged...
The Hunt for Love: Are We Looking in the Wrong Place?

The Hunt for Love: Are We Looking in the Wrong Place?

We chase love like it’s a prize, a destination, a missing piece that someone else holds. We romanticize the hunt, believing that love exists outside of us—if only we could find the right person to give it to us. But what if the love we’re searching for isn’t something...
Emotions: The Signals We Shouldn’t Ignore

Emotions: The Signals We Shouldn’t Ignore

I’ve been reading The Origins of You, and something struck me—how easy it is to intellectualize trauma. I’ve done it. Maybe you have too. We can understand someone’s pain logically, analyze it, even explain it. But when that pain touches us directly, it’s a different...
Devolution of Power

Devolution of Power

Loretta’s (Banksy’s) latest piece in Soho is a stark visual commentary on evolution—or rather, its reversal. The artwork, depicting the familiar “ascent of man” sequence but halting at a suited figure with a distinct resemblance to a certain political leader, forces...