SAM Frida

My thoughts IMHO:- Trust isn’t built on the absence of wrongdoing. It’s not about hoping someone won’t betray you. It’s about knowing, with certainty, that they are grounded in who they are. The most trustworthy people aren’t perfect. They’re just clear. They know...

I’m just thinking out loud here. I don’t have the answer, but I can’t help but wonder—has technology, in all its efficiency, created a deeper divide between genders, values, and human connection itself? Generations ago, relationships may have been guided by moral...

#Unfit: The Psychology of Donald Trump is more than just a documentary—it’s a lens into the wiring of a mind that has shaped a turbulent era. It doesn’t excuse, nor does it solve the chaos. But it does offer something valuable: understanding. When you begin to see...

Numbness isn’t protection—it’s postponement. What you refuse to feel doesn’t disappear; it waits. Face it now, or it finds you later.

In many Asian cultures, love is often conditional—tied to achievement, obedience, and maintaining a polished image of family success. From a young age, children learn that love must be earned. Be the top student, be the dutiful child, be the perfect sibling, and in...

Chaos isn’t random—it exposes our flaws. Maybe Trump is just a symptom, not the cause. Maybe the problem is deeper, rooted in a culture that thrives on instantaneous gratification, always chasing the next “biggest,” “best,” or “number one.” Traveling beyond packaged...

We chase love like it’s a prize, a destination, a missing piece that someone else holds. We romanticize the hunt, believing that love exists outside of us—if only we could find the right person to give it to us. But what if the love we’re searching for isn’t something...

I’ve been reading The Origins of You, and something struck me—how easy it is to intellectualize trauma. I’ve done it. Maybe you have too. We can understand someone’s pain logically, analyze it, even explain it. But when that pain touches us directly, it’s a different...

I’ve been observing how our current administration defines success and influence. It’s pretty clear that the benchmark is wealth. If you’ve made a lot of money, you’re considered smart. If you’re rich, you’re worth keeping close. Relationships aren’t built on trust,...