SAM Frida
Unfiltered – ish
The Cost of Perfection: A Child’s Silent Struggle
When parents prioritize appearances over relationships, the weight of perfection often falls on the shoulders of their children. These children learn to perform, to achieve, to conform—not out of joy or curiosity, but as a means of earning love and acceptance. The...
The World is Crumbling, and It Should Be
The world feels like it’s crumbling, and for many of us, it truly is. But if I could step back and speak plainly, this moment—this chaos—is exactly where cause and effect come into play. Let’s face it: for so long, we’ve been on autopilot. We’ve repeated words like “I...
Peace is an Inside Job FIRST – so true!
We can’t achieve genuine outcomes if we haven’t faced ourselves yet. Replicating, regurgitating or repeating phrases or being perceived to be doing the right thing on social media (or any where else) isn’t sustainable in the long term if it’s not authentically been...
The Importance of Shadow Work
Shadow work is a journey into the parts of ourselves we often avoid—our triggers, our fears, and our wounds. Demons don’t leave us; they linger, waiting to be triggered. But healing doesn’t mean erasing them. Instead, it’s about cultivating a level of self-awareness...
The Three Children of Grief: Honoring Our Emotions
Grief, as Nikita Gill beautifully illustrates, is not a monolithic experience. It’s a journey of encountering Anger, Sadness, and eventually Healing. These “children of grief” invite us to feel deeply, each one bringing lessons as profound as they are painful. Anger...
A few favorite quotes ..
Forgiveness
It happens naturally, when ready, without effort…without you even realizing it. You will feel it. Until then, just make every day a day you do your best, with good intentions. That’s really all you can do - be patient with your emotions - it stays until it is ready to...
Listening to Wisdom Through the Beat
When I first heard Bob Marley’s music, I was drawn to the beat, the rhythm that could light up any moment. Back then, I was an unconscious wanderer, moving through life without much awareness. But as I’ve become more self-aware, I now see his music for what it truly...
Awakening: Worth the Thorn
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