SAM Frida

Unfiltered – ish

Losing People, Finding Me

Losing People, Finding Me

The more I speak my truth, the more I see how people have been conditioned to expect the version of me I used to offer—the agreeable one, the accommodating one, the one who stayed silent to keep the peace. But I’ve changed. This shift didn’t happen overnight. It came...

Who Said Mainstream Knows the Way?

Who Said Mainstream Knows the Way?

We all do it. We take one look at someone—the way they dress, how they speak, the way they carry themselves—and we think we know. We label them: polished, professional, chaotic, kind, offbeat, or even unstable. It’s automatic. But is it fair? Here’s something to sit...

When It Hits Home

When It Hits Home

We tend to care when it’s close. A friend. A co-worker. A neighbor. Suddenly, trauma has a face. Addiction has a name. Mental health is no longer a headline—it’s personal. But why does it take proximity for us to feel empathy? We often look away from what’s hard. It’s...

Listening to the Heart

Listening to the Heart

The heart is not a weakness to silence, but a compass we ignore at the cost of our truth. There is something undeniably powerful about the heart. It carries our truths, even when our minds try to override them. And this quote from The Alchemist captures that so simply...

Start With the Spark Within

Start With the Spark Within

“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive and then go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”  - Howard Thurman We often ask ourselves, What does the world need from me? But maybe the better question is: What...

Think Before You Share

Think Before You Share

To my friends and family living across oceans and borders, I know it can feel funny or even cathartic to share jokes or memes about how “shitty” this country has become. And trust me—we get it. We’re living it. But I’m writing this as a gentle reminder: we don’t need...

From Performer to Person

From Performer to Person

You live your life thinking it all makes sense—until it doesn’t. One day, life hits hard. Then harder. And somewhere between the unraveling and the ugly crying, you realize: you’ve been on a stage all along. Healing feels like peeling. Layers of who you thought you...

Plot Twist: No One’s Out to Get You

Plot Twist: No One’s Out to Get You

On a good day, here is how I describe it as I see it:- You know those days when it feels like the whole universe woke up with one mission—to mess with your vibe? Yeah, turns out… plot twist… no one’s actually plotting against you. Most people are just walking around...

The Line Between Understanding and Self-Honoring

The Line Between Understanding and Self-Honoring

One of the hardest lines to walk is the one between understanding others and honoring yourself. When you have a sensitive heart, you feel everything. You see through façades, and you know—sometimes too well—why people behave the way they do. You understand their...